Tantra For Women

When they say tantra for women, they usually do sensual yoni massage. Yoni, also known as vaginal massage. Some of the videos you’ll find on the internet either are just a person that performs some of the stretching techniques that are known to physiotherapists or performs some part of the sensual yoni massage and then calls it a tantra session. Also women who allegedly say that they get tantra massage, they usually continues to describe sensual yoni massages.

Tantra is a Sexual Way of Meditation

When it comes to Tantra, the first thing that comes to mind is usually sex. Which is true, it’s about sexuality and sex is part of sexuality. People say, in Tantra, sex is seen as a spiritual journey, not a intercourse. You can say the same thing about sex, sex is also a journey. There was a foreplay before the intercourse, there was a touching and kissing. Sex is also not all about intercourse either. What makes it tantra different from sex is that tantra is the sexual way of meditation. An attempt to climb the nirvana discovering the sexuality.

Sophistication of Sexuality

Sexuality has gradually evolved since the first humans. Initially, it was used only for breeding. Just for intercourse. We don’t know back then how many cavewives able to reach orgasm. I’m sure some cavemen kissed their cavewives’ necks and caressed their thighs before the intercourse but they were few. The only thing we are sure of is that humans tend to make things sophisticated. 

Women just start to explore their sexuality. Only men are able to orgasm back then. Back then? Like until the 80s ? 70s ? How hard to reach orgasm for modern women can tell something. At least they are not used to doing that. Just like man not used to lasting longer in the bed. Everything is new and we act like it is normal. We were just born in it so it looks normal.